you'll never know me but you may know my name carrie yeo. Is a walking contradiction. Happy-go-lucky yet emotional. Over-confident yet suffers from inferiority complex. Love to sing yet afraid of the stage. Always hopeful about the future but always living in the present. Adventurous in bigger life experiences like joining Project Superstar but very cowardly in trivial thrills like monkey bars. Always fighting with herself in the mind like there are 5 Carrie's in there. Blogging is a way to straighten out thoughts for her. Blogging is a way for her to leave clues for herself, so that in ten years time, Carrie might start to understand herself better....

driving frees my mind and so i tweet.

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一向来，艺人们说一些“你们的鼓励是我的推动力”等，这类型的谢语，我都会觉得是客套话。我都会想“Sure or not??!"

今天，我有个领悟。我领悟到他们是认真的，是诚恳的！！！！

鼓励是一种无敌有力的推动力。我们华人的文化就是不太会说鼓励的话。在我们长大的过程，拿听写簿给妈妈看，只要不是满分，就会“打到满分”。就是说，90分，就打10下。厉害hor? 所以，lack of punishment becomes a reward.

我天生乐观，很会自己找称赞的话. 我妈没有骂我的时候，我就会调皮地说“哇！你没有打我，就是说我做对了啦？”妈妈就会有点不甘愿地“um！”一声。然后，我就会自满半天。人真的是需要 positive reinforcement 的。

我爸妈，很厉害。他们是无敌好爸妈！他们学会了....称赞！*clap clap clap* 所以，走这一条路，没有他们的鼓励，我是没有办法开心地追求的。当然你们留的那些 comments, 也是帮了我许多的！！谢谢你们。muacks!!!

我觉得我们每个人都有一种责任。对于你的家人，朋友，你有老实地给于他们鼓励吗？说一句好听的话，是不用花钱的！

Stop the criticism and judgment!!! Start telling your friends and family that you love them!!! The world will become a better place! Trust me, you will be happier too!

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